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Old Oct 03, 2016, 12:54 PM
BudFox BudFox is offline
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Originally Posted by rainbow8 View Post
Are you considering another T? The reasons for obsessing, the infantile unmet needs, as you said, are still there. A qualified T wouldn't leave you the way your T did. She would help you deal with it. Or at least help sort out what your T did and didn't do so you can move on.
I seen no reason to believe that another T, regardless of qualifications, won't abandon OP. I also think another T is more likely than not to side with his/her colleague and attempt to blame the client.

Is therapy a solution for unmet infantile needs, or is it part of the problem, dragging people down further?

Seems like meditation would be a thing to try. Slow the process down and observe what is really going on.
Thanks for this!
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