You are not ugly. Not even close. I think you have a very unique look.

Now, I am an ugly guy and way back when I was trying to date I was never brave enough to post a photo. That you did that speaks volumes about you, and yes all good things.

A lot of women would demand a photo so I sent one via whatever chat service they were using and never heard back, they usually just blocked me after I sent the photo. A few would meet me without a picture and they all wanted to bail the second we met up but I became good friends with a couple of them. One even saved my life, repeatedly.

My point is that, you just need to meet guys in person and then superficial things become less important to people. I can't explain why but it is true in my experience. You might also want to try more personal ways of meeting guys. I had a book on dating that suggested things like grocery shopping Saturday or Sunday morning(not likely to be into partying, or married with kids), go to single meetups(I was too shy to last long as these events) or if you are religious, church.

The ratio of quality people is much, much lower online compared to real life opportunities IMO.