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Originally Posted by AllHeart
If there is one thing my t does right, it's repairing ruptures. She always stays with me until I'm ok with what happened. We work it out together, doing whatever it takes to make it right. She always take accountability. My t has told me a few times that rupture repair done right will strengthen the relationship. I find that to be true.
I am sorry your t hasn't been able to take accountability for her demented actions and work with you to repair ruptures in a professional, adult-like manner, MonaLisa. I know it's a very difficult path to walk being so attached to a therapist that can't contain her own mental illnesses in the therapy space. I hope you can find what you need in going back to this t.
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Has there ever been a time when you couldn't be ok with what happened all heart? What happens then?
I believe that too that a repaired rupture will strengthen the relationship.
My t does not even know the word rupture, I had to explain what it meant to her. She uses a term called a break in the alliance.
I need my t to be strong right now. I feel she is pushing me away and this hurts. Since her disclosure she has been very busy and my appointments have gone from weekly to fortnightly. This is what is causing me the most pain is that I feel abandoned. I think she realised her mistake and pulled away. I don't think my t has a mental illness she is just a very odd/ strange person! I think that she cares too much and pushes me too hard. She wants me to be happy but I need to do it in my own time, she took accountability for pushing me too much before and I never even had bring it to her attention. I need my t right now because the pain of not having her is too much for me.