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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
And yet the style of clothes you are wearing in the photos are very 'girl next door'. Your hair and glasses are a funky style, but it strikes me that your clothes aren't. That's why I brought up the sexier black outfit.
I had a punk BF in the 80's and he said I dressed like Little Bo Peep. Eventually I started dressing like I belonged with him. But, I have BPD traits and tend to become like whoever I'm with...
I'd say you are looking for a guy who is as into the music as you are and who shares your values.
Truth be told, you are 29 and only get paid a little or not at all for your articles. Are your parents supporting you? You are going to have some explaining to do when you do start dating these guys. What do you have to contribute?
You might want to find a guy that you can work with. Maybe someone who is a band manager and you can be the band promoter or an assistant to him.
Basically, you are going to have to work in one way or another. If you are 29, not working, and don't want to have children, what are you going to do?
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Well people have reviewed my dating profiles before and would say when I did wear the band t-shirts and jeans, I gota dress MORE GIRLY. So I changed my style TO WHAT OTHERS SAID. Thats why I am dressing more girly and to show my figure.
I get paid for my articles but it is rare, like maybe once a year type of payment and pay is not much $20 here or $50 there not much to live off of. Yes I live at home with my family, I contribute to them, by helping them around the house, yes they pay me and I know how to save money, but once that money is gone, it is gone.
I am working on finding work.
When contributing to the dating aspect I can pay for their gas, the date itself, or if we go to a concert, I can get free tickets, and pay for parking. Thats contributing but again once my saved money is gone, it is gone, unti I save up again.
I have looked for guys in my music scene and most don't drive, don't work, do drugs, drink, smoke, and just want sex, and not looking for a real relationship or marriage.
I want a man that works and drives and shares similar interests and doesn't drink, smoke, or do drugs, at all.