A few things:
First, I think it was insensitive of her to use a term like narcissistic.
Second, did you ask her to explain her point or just assume that accepting water and dressing in chinos = narcissism? Because in my book, those are just normal things people do.
Third, I kind of think your idea to dress in black and bring your own water is just as perfectionistic as your adherence to unyeilding ideals.
This is good stuff for discussion. I would definitely talk more to your therapist about it.
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