Are any of you the black sheep of the family? I am and it is hard for me because I don't know how to deal with it. I just want to know how some of you deal with being the black sheep of your family. Its hard for me because Thanksgiving and christmas are coming up and I'm the black sheep of my family and I see the way they look at me. They give me the looks that say yeah, your my cousin, daughter, and niece but your not like us. I've tried to change to make them happy but in the process I've become unhappy which just makes me even more of a black sheep. Any advice would be greatly appreciated?