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Originally Posted by stolemyheart87
So none of you, have ever dated someone and talked to them throughout the whole day or night? I don't believe that haha.
And I called him on the phone earlier today and we talked for 7 minutes, he said he would call me back and never did. I texted him asking him if we would meet up this weekend for our first date and no response.
During our phone call, we got along and had a nice time talking so don't think it was cold.
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Nope, I do not talk to the people I date all day and night. I don't have that kind of time. I work 12-14 hour days, I have friends and family, and I have hobbies. Where would I ever find the time? Early on, I may talk to a new date for 20 minutes here and there, and then schedule a weekend date. If she tried to talk to me more than that, or pestered me between 11pm and 8am, she would be gone! I would run for the hills. I want to get to know someone by going on dates in person, but when we are not together I have a million other things I need to do and other people I need to make time for.
My impression is that you come on way too strong and are scaring these guys off. Your expectations are not in line with reality. You need to choose either someone who has free days and nights to talk to you OR someone who has a job. You can't have both.