if this is an online dating guy that you are talking to and he's in another country (or says he's in CA) he is a scammer...block and delete. I talked to one for about a month but kept getting clues that things weren't right, I even went so far as to look up the area codes he was calling from and none of them matched up...and the CA area code was known for being used by scammers.
He was sweet, very lovely, sent pictures, sang love songs on the ph to me...quite a character..but I had my radar going because I know guys aren't really like that. he kept saying he loved me and wanted us to be a happy family, etc. I just let him talk. the day the word MONEY came into the conversation I immediately blocked and deleted him.

I have since been approached at least 4 other times by men who had similar stories and acted in a similar fashion. block, delete. they have a script they follow apparently and I recognized it right off after the first one. I looked this up on google about these guys. that's how I learned of this.

just be really careful of anyone who tries to move that fast.