That sounds really unhealthy. No one you have just started dating should be "front and center." That speaks to an issue with boundaries/ obsessive behavior. It is much healthier to prioritize one's own needs, the needs of one's children (for those who have them), one's friends/family, career, etc before someone you have just started dating. There is room for shifting that after a number of years together/ marriage, but not the first few months. Do you have friends or family in your life to hang out with rather than putting all of your needs into the guys online?