This amount of texting/time on the phone seems really excessive. No matter how much I like or even love a person, I would never spend all day on the phone....not even near that amount of time. I feel it can be a turn off for a lot of people, because you run out of interesting things to say. This creates burn out--especially in a new relationship. Sometimes less is more. It will give you both the opportunity to have some time and space so that there's new things to report.
It's impossible for there to be that much new going on if you are constantly texting and on the phone with someone/trying to get in touch with them. Also, it's less pressure....especially if someone is working. It's stressful to keep up with that kind of contact, even if someone really likes you. They can take it that you are expecting too much. Maybe if you adjusted your expectations and allowed for more flexibility, you'd open yourself up to healthier and more fulfilling relationships. Just my input.
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