Sometimes i bring my own water, sometimes i dont.

At first i was reluctant and embarrassed even to accept my ts offer of water. Now i often command him: "Agua!"

Your t accommodated your desire for water. Now it seems, you are afraid she analyzed your request negatively, and so you resent her for an unflattering analysis?

I would say, between our two ts, mine had the crazier client in terms of problems with water. You just asked for it, and got it, and took it, like a normal polite person.

Why do you think that doing the normal thing is wrong? Were your parents unusual or different in some way that made you stand out? Or that you had to hide something?