Wow, does your t have a split personality ? I don't mean to be rude but WTF? There is no reasonable explanation for that. Where I come from if you say your **** you are implying that the **** is their rubbish, their mess. I am absolutely disgusted that your t could say that about your trauma so casually. I am wondering if she is ok in the head because the only way I can get my head around a t saying that so casually is if they lost their sanity for a moment.
Do you think you could talk to her more about it because she owes you a huge explanation for this because for me this would be unforgivable!