I spend much time texting or on the phone and neither one of us are teenagers nor lacking maturity. 'tis the reality of maintaining connection when not living together nor local.

Sayin'

As far as this guy's blasé attitude or the fact he rolled out of bed at 3pm, if he's not working 2nd or 3rd shifts, your flags are already up. Run.

Edit to add, now that I'm having my coffee.
Men, while we're discussing in general, yet with specific ones in mind and while thinking about their effect and the frustrations that come from the dating pool. As a woman, it's important to recognize that not only is it not about you meaning it's not that some of them aren't interested, it's them in taking that next step. Besides "they" 😏 get so used to their cozy little bachelor life. Whatever that entails? Beer, pot whatever at night. Can scratch themselves without being seen. It's not "us" it's them.