I think the profile as now written is much better.

I think a major problem you have is that you're looking for a very, very unusual person to begin with--someone who's into heavy metal and concerts--but doesn't touch drugs, who is a traditional, devout Catholic (what I gleaned from someone else's comment, is that correct?)--but doesn't want children.

You want someone who 'has his life together' but such a person is likely to be drawn to someone who has an education, a job, and her own home at the age of 29. Such a person is less likely to be drawn to someone who's very 'into' animes and cartoons.

I haven't read enough here to know anything else about you, but do you have a college education? Are you working at finding a full time job or building a business of your own?

Sometimes, the thing to do is just go about our own lives, and getting our own lives in order.