Gerber, thanks for putting into words so much I have wanted to ask my T. I did send it to him. I changed a few things to fit me, like I told him about my abuse so I just had to reword that one part. He did respond, and he first said he couldn't do that letter justice in one phone call. But we did talk about some of it, and he said he wants to answer it all. We talked about the trust part, and his feelings on it, and how he would never run screaming or hurt me in any way. WE also talked about him being there for me, and holding my hand, which he said he would never of thought of any other way.

I just wanted to thank you, I wish you could find a way to give it to your T, it is such an awesome letter......

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