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Originally Posted by mindwrench
I've been celibate for many years too. I too sometimes want more than I can give myself. I am in no mental shape to date, or anything like that. I feel like the whole scene is a minefield of intimidation, rejection, hurt feelings, std's, etc. Maybe one of these years I'll actually be boyfriend material again, and can have a healthy relationship. Hope everything still works at that point, lol.
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Yay for fellow celibates! Sorry you're feeling so low at the moment though. My biggest issue is intolerance I think. I've lived on my own for 20 years. Im really not great at sharing my space. I love the idea of being married to someone who lives next door or something. Where I can still have my own space, with the benefits of a husband when I want it and solace when I need it. Im well aware how selfish that is, but I've just never met anyone who has made me feel otherwise. My privacy and alone time is important to me, but if I get that, I would be the most giving gf the times that I am with someone. The guys I meet tend to be druggies or limpits though - not what Im in to!