NO! NO! NO! Nobody would do that to me and get away with it from the very beginnin!

Did you tell his wife about his behavior at your place of work? Did you tell your boss?

If you haven't told his wife already now is the time to do that! The friendship isn't worth your safety!

Get yourself a can of maze and a "horn-in-a-can", the kind that you use like an aerosol can but can be heard for miles.

Call the cops IMMEDIATELY when he shows up at your door, with flowers or not! If you have to exagerate your fear, by golly, go for it!!

Scream, blow that horn, make as much noise as you can and draw attention to yourself and to HIM!

If he raped you, by golly, fill out a report!

Why has he gotten away with so much already???

I know it takes guts to do what I would do, but NO ONE is going to violate me and my boundaries like that!