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Originally Posted by justafriend306
Unless I basically ask for a response I don't expect one. As for those sent to me, I may not have the time to immediately sit down and fire off a response. Sometimes too I need to think on my answer for a while or even rehearse in my head the words I will use. I also tend to look at emails as correspondence of a more professional nature. Again, however, I do not expect immediate responses or replies at all unless I have expressly indicated one is required.
When it comes to texts, neither do I expect an immediate reply. Certainly don't expect one from me.
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I realize that some people are busy and don't like to respond to emails or texts right away. Not even I respond to people right away sometimes. However, to flat out ignore something personal is just plain rude IMHO.
One friend accepted my invite to a movie, but she flat out ignored me regarding the house! I don't expect much, but a sorry to hear that would be nice! It'd be like hearing that a friend has cancer and you flat out ignore it since they didn't ask for a response. Does that make any sense? People shouldn't have to ask for support or comfort IMHO from friends.
Some people have no feelings it seems like! There are way to many selfish people out there who don't seem to care about anything that doesn't affect them in some way for sure!
Thankfully one friend did care and offer advice although I asked for none. I'll try to keep things to myself a lot more from now on knowing that most people would rather not deal with other people's problems most of the time. They don't even want to listen to problems much less help.