One question, if you feel your girlfriend isn't attractive, why is she (or was she) your girlfriend? If someone said or did to me what you've been saying and doing to other women, I would report it in a second and never think twice. You are harrassing these women to assist your sexual needs. You need to get professional help NOW before you end up doing that to the wrong woman and getting in serious trouble. And don't date until you have this under control. That is just cruel to the person you are dating and it could hurt her ability to engage in any kind of intimate relationship in the long run by killing her trust in men. I am not trying to be mean, I'm just trying to be honest and give you an idea of what is going to happen if you don't get some major help. If any of the women you ask this of have certain anxiety or other psychological issues you could seriously damage them for your own sexual pleasure.