@The O.P, try meetup.com to meet specific type of guys. It's perfect since it's free and it's mostly catered towards people in their 20's-30's. There are lots of singles groups and there are definitely lots of groups for everything that you can think of.

There are even groups for stoners, lol! So of course, there will be anime groups. I like metal music too, and there are a few groups for that, and even one goth group in my area. You can even start your own group, but organizers have to pay meetup a monthly fee.

Also, you can meet a lot more guys in person and weed out the ones that you don't like a lot quicker. Or you can meet a few cool friends in process! Just go and see what happens! Just play it cool and don't expect to much to soon or you might end up scaring away potential dates.

Instead of spending time waiting for one person to maybe ask you out on a date, you'll get to meet lots of guys in a much lower pressure environment right away who also share your interests like anime and music. Good luck with everything!