My T often tells me i'm very independent and its okay to be vulnerable. However, I think any attempt to let her in more would be dependency. I mean, I'd love to just call when im in pain or lonley, but thats not what she means right???? .... Or maybe ask for a hug, but I did that and I don't think she gives them. So when im in session or out.. how do i let her support me? I truly don't understand how to be vulnerable. :-(