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Originally Posted by black-roses ...she can't make demands with what I can spend the rest of my money on... it's unfair she also has to comment in my private life who I can and can't date which again is not her business because it is not her who has to live with it.

You are living under her roof. It is her place to make these demands. You still haven't addressed your failure to be responsible with reporting your income. I am with your mother in that I would put my foot down about your spending habits until you have your financial responsibilities under control. Until you can prove to her that you are capable of making sensible decisions regarding spending habits it is her responsibility to place expectations upon you. If she weren't she wouldn't be doing a very good job of being your mother. It is her business.