Thanks everyone. I think I´m upset about that we still are problematizing and that my T after 9 months comes up with this "narcissistic trait hypothesis". It´s like she still is looking for something to treat and I feel it´s the wrong way of doing things.

Of course you have to know the issues and problems but then you have to leave this and go further, to instead find ways of solving the issues. Or am I expecting too much?