While all these comments are great, you really should take some time out for your own self and not rush into... marriage. You say in a different thread how you are having trouble with work because of your depression and anxiety but here, you're saying you're actively looking for work. Which is it? I also caught on that you're 29 but haven't driven in years because your parents don't want you to hurt yourself. How is being independent and getting yourself to a potential job going to hurt? Many men would be turned off by this arrangement. At least men your age who do have their stuff together. It seems like you're just waiting around for any man to rescue you so you can play house. Men want to see that you can take care of yourself first.