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Originally Posted by justafriend306
I guess we differ, because in that cancer example you gave, that would warrant a response in person or by phone. Email, just isn't the place for that. It's rude. If it's important enough to get a reply it's important enough to use the phone.
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Well, I'm going to see this friend of mine real soon. Tomorrow actually. I invited her to a movie. I highly doubt that she'll even mention the house at all. I find this incredibly hurtful, selfish, and rude of her to do. I'll say nothing though as sadly I have a hell of a time making friends. If that weren't the case, I'd dump her right away.
I'll only keep her as an activity friend and NEVER EVER tell her anything personal as she obviously doesn't care to hear about anything unpleasant. I have listened to her talk about her sick mom and her health issues and she can't even care enough to say sorry to hear that? WTF? Just WTF? This pisses me off.
She didn't even bother to text or call me. One friend did try to offer advice and support me through email, so the point about not discussing things over email isn't valid. This other friend would mostly email me and I'd much rather hear a sorry to hear that from a friend even though they don't know what else to do or say rather than to be flat out ignored.
How would YOU feel if a so called friend ignored you after you brought up bad news to them?