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Originally Posted by Echos Myron
This is exactly it, and why I feel he was being manipulative. T asked me what my instinct was on whether he was being manipulative or ignorant, and I said I'm running out of excuses for him. He must know what he's doing.
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Either way, we are the only ones who can take ourselves out of harms way. Sometimes it doesnt matter what the other persons intention was. Thats how we get into codependent or other "wrong" relationships? Or how we end up dead.
Sometimes i want to ask my first ex-h, what the heck were you thinking?! Could you not see i was clueless?? But he thought i took good care of him, thats what he said.