hi ravdeep
no i have not heard of that but i will look it up.... i used to be a worry wart when it came to my own health, still am but not so bad. now like you if my head is hurting, than i know it's a tension headache, if i have pain in my leg than i say to myself maybe its a pulled muscle... now i just need to think these same thoughts when it comes to my kids.

i lost my mom so suddenly when i was still in my teens, so hence the fears....

thanks again for you reply.