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Old Oct 05, 2016, 07:33 PM
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So you expect these guys to do whatever it takes to communicate with you, even while they are at work trying to bring home the bacon?! Even if they could get in trouble for texting you while they are working? Just because some guys you have dated have been able to chat all day long, does not mean all of them will be able to. Someone texts me during the day at work and they're lucky to get a response from me before 7pm the next day. You can't imagine that he has other things in his life that are important to him.

If you can't handle that you aren't his first and foremost priority (after only knowing each other such a short time, which is odd) then you need to move on to find another guy who will. Although I warn you that you're not likely to find any guy who will want to have this much obsessive contact with you.

Also, you keep telling us to stop telling you why we think he isn't responding. If you don't want us to tell you what we think is happening, THEN DON'T ASK. Stop the drama.

Good luck.

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