That's partly what I feel uncomfortable about. I don't want to get in trouble myself and I also don't want to leave a review with the sentiment I feel now and then later regret it. The best outcome I could hope for in finding closure would be to contact ex-T some time in the future when I've calmed down and got my head around what happened and what issues it raised for me, and tell her exactly how opening up unmet infantile needs then shutting me down and pretending it wasn't happening affected me; how ill-prepared we were for termination, how it's still affecting me months later and how this was stirred up all over again when she rejected me returning - just to get it all out of my system.