I don't need self help books, videos, therapists or anything like that ok. I do not need help period. I want someone I can date, go out with have fun with, I am tired of staying at home all the time and being bored out of my mind. I want to go out, go to concerts, have fun. I am almost 30, my life will fly away before I know it. I don't want to waste my years not doing anything.