What stood out to me and a red flag is the fact that you've documented every day and every correspondence of any sort. It's a bit OCD and you have no compassion. People need sleep. As someone pointed out to you, you're on a forum for MI and sleep can be a major issue for some of us. No sleep can mean hospitalization for some of us. My fiancé works graveyard and I would never bother him like this. I respect the fact that he's working hard for his kids and I and not some kid slacking on the job.