I agree...there is nothing romantic about mental health or personality disorders. I don't know why anyone would want one. I can understand maybe some non Dx people might explore if they suspect, like I did before I got evaluated and got all the news, they might have something. Teeter-tottering from BPD struggles to NPD, losing loved ones due to unforgiving anger, rage, and disappointment and lack of TRUST, pushing men away who clearly care because I've picked them apart and lost interest...always just wanting a "normal" life...but never being able to find it...or even a suitable fake one. It's tragic.