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Old Oct 06, 2016, 03:41 PM
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Originally Posted by Hedgeleaf View Post
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I have always acted interested because I am.

I'm upset by what he's written as i find it really harsh.

my free time is limited and I try my hardest to actually create more free time but I can't always do that. the fact he said if I really wanted to thebe I would have by now?
Well it says something about him maybe new information. What it says to me is that he seems to be the type that expects you to go out of your way and make sacrifices if you "really" were interested. Which is kind of a presumptuous thing and even kind of self important if you ask me. That he knew you have other pressing concerns but figures you can just toss them away, maybe you dodged a bullet here?

Ask yourself if you want to get involved with someone that shows signs of this kind of dynamic when you haven't even dated him yet.
Thanks for this!
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