I feel the most authentic and genuine way for me to relate to others would be to love (eek!) them, but I wonder, is it OK.. This may sound like a silly question, but because my dad DID NOT love me, I feel, I don't know.. Like I didn't have a model for loving others and don't know if that's what I'm supposed to do.. I kind of know my father was wrong in not loving me, but I don't have an understanding of how things are supposed to be..