I'm not sure of some of you have experienced this with your t or your children's t. My boys are scheduled to see their T for 50-60 min. I've noticed a pattern lately where she will only see them for 1.5 in total. She gave 60 min this Monday to my youngest and 30 min to my oldest. Sometimes she will give my youngest less time. She says that they're both good and that there's nothing to address. Meanwhile they both have been through a tough divorce/custody case with numerous lifestyle adjustments. My oldest is like me and keeps quiet and will say that he's fine when he's not. He needs help extracting issues. My youngest suffers from dwarfism and will act as if everything is ok when it isn't as well. According to their t they're both great and nothing to address. I'm tired of trying to enlighten Ts and try to bring things to their attention. It's like playing an old record. Today my youngest one with dwarfism was called a midget and flipped twice by someone three times his size in the next grade. I texted his T and she asked if he's ok and I said basically as ok as he's going to be. He was so upset and worked up. This whole scenario made me think why she's not addressing his short stature issue. He's very sensitive to it. It seems that if the boys are not addressing in therapy what the father wants then there's nothing to work on according to her. Before she used to call Me in to see if there's something else that should be addressed. That has changed as well. I know my oldest just loves going in and talking about his day and his soccer games. She me not interested in that. O don't see how that's wrong especially since she's getting paid for it. Isn't that her job? perhaps im wrong but I didn't know that if he decided to talk about his disappointment or excitement with a game then the alternative is to end the session 20-30 min early. Is this the norm?
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