The other client of my T (ooops 'EX' t - ouch) has from the get go, needled me for information about him, how much I see him, how long for , etc. I am extremely cagey as I think she sees him once a month and he sees me twice a week so naturally it was never in my interests to disclose that as she would just go round and rant at him and demand the same. She is like that. So I am cagey. If I truly hated my t I would post his address to her and let her go and rant at him, she is quite capable of it. If I truly hated him :I would get an article written about what he has done to me, in the local or national papers but I am not in hating mode - I am in grief and shock and bewilderment and pain mode. with flashes of incandescent rage.
This is like a soap opera. These threads of mine are just going to run and run. As long as it doesn't end up with me being arrested for harassment or stalking
That is not really funny, it is a bit close to the bone.
Please, I do ask that people be really careful what they say to me. Imagine me crying infront of you, unable to wipe my own nose I am in such pain and then try to be gentle and careful what you say as I am already pretty overwhelmed. I don't need more landed on me right now. As I am sure you can all appreciate. Insightful, wise, thoughtful and supportive understanding is much appreciated. I feel like there should be a flag on my posts saying ' please be extra careful, extremely fragile grief stricken person here' but then that is most of us really so I guess we all are used to treating each other with enormous care and kindness.