Thanks It's good to know there is a chance. We are seriously thinking about our core self and where she might be. We think she is the one in the well who is continuously falling. She yells but does not talk to us. We tried to get her to sit on the top of the well but she is back in falling again. We don't know if she is the original self. She looks like we did when we were ten or eleven. We don't know how to help her out of the well but she don't interact with us. She is an image in our mind. But she feels like us. Any way it helps to know that sometimes it takes several tries before emdr can help.