I am serious about getting the courage to ask him. The first time around I was in hospital for 5 days and wasn't given a diagnosis. I didn't ask. Frankly, I didn't want to rock the boat. I wsn't very assertive then. I took my medication for months before I had a second breakdown and was hospitalized for a month. This time it was only from what the pharmacist told me that made me realize the diagnosis (bipolar).

I get the not wishing to ask things. I found it uncomfortable myself. Yet, once I finally did ask to talk about the diagnosis things suddenly came much easier. I only wish I was able to advocate for myself earlier.

And hence my suggestion you come right out and ask about the denial for assistance. What is the missing part in your health that caused him to feel you are okay to work? Whatever the case, ask him then about what you can do to work on being that person he thinks you are who he thinks is ready for employment.