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Originally Posted by defyinggravity65
I think it frightens me because if I'm constantly comparing, that leads to the "better than" thoughts at times. I am worried I can't tolerate being friends with someone unless I am "better than" them in at least some way so I don't feel insecure and jealous. I realize that people are more than my judgements, and I just wish I wouldn't do it.
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What is so frightening about having "better than" thoughts at times? Comparing is a part of human nature.
Judging people is yet again human nature. The key is not letting it dominate your actions. Thinking something is not inherently harmful, it's how you choose to act in response to those thoughts that matters.