((((((((((((((((( Patty & Mom ))))))))))))))))))
You are doing so much for your mom Patty. Don't stop doing for yourself too. PC is here for you whenever you need us and for whatever you need in support. Take the time each day for you to do for you too.
I've cared for my mom when she was terminal also. It's so easy to get lost in their needs and forgo your own. But I can say from experience that this is not the way to go.
Take advantage of hospice whenever possible. Give yourself some much deserved and needed time away for YOU. Let others help when they can, there is no shame in allowing others to help.
If you ever feel the need, feel free to pm me about anything at all. I'll be happy to be a strong shoulder for you
Sending you and mom my prayers and support.

xoxoxo
sabby