I'm a 33yo f going after a 26 yo m... feel like a cougar and ashamed.. but he's so hot! We haven't met, just messaging... the messaging is taking a turn towards the sexting route, which I'm not comfortable with... I won't send pics of me naked to a guy I haven't met regardless of age... Thing is, I wanna meet up with him, but I feel like first thing we do we're just gonna jump into bed together! I'm not looking for a relationship and he's not either.. We both have an understanding that we just want to have fun and he says he's totally ok with everything and that age is just a number... Idk I've never been with I guy where I'm this older than him... The other way around has happened to me though at a much larger age span (me 23yo and him in his 50's??)...