My T doesn't really have any quirks--dresses stylishly, well-groomed, etc. With marriage counselor...one thing is how many of his shirts/blazers are too big for him. Which made H wonder if he lost a bunch of weight at some point. But the main one that jumps out at me is that he'll sometimes wear polo shirts and not button them at all, showing a fair amount of chest hair (and he has dark hair and rather fair skin, so pretty noticeable). Which was...interesting the day after I first had an erotic dream about him a year and a half ago. But anyway... H has said to me that maybe he should suggest to him that he groom his chest hair or something, but, uh, that seems like an awkward conversation! We also have this theory that since he sees lots of teen clients (his specialty area), maybe he's trying to make himself as unappealing/unattractive as possible? With like the loose-fitting shirts, dad trousers, '70s chest hair... And he used to have shoes that were basically falling apart--T commented to me about them once, like, "OMG, have you seen his shoes?!?" But he seems to have fixed that issue.