I agree. Most people seek help and go to therapy due to trauma and then some of us deal with the added issues concerning our therapist session and therpeutic relationship. I know for me I was seeking help with past trauma mad current issues. Then more issues were added to my plate. Then my issues in session and communication with my T was just over the top. I began to see that what I went in originally for wasn't even being addressed and now I was paying for sessions to mend the therpeutic relationship. It just didn't make sense.