The problem is this man has issues but I do too. This other woman finally left after he told her too after she was caught literally harassing me in the hall. I got upset earlier about her behavior here and I told him about it. He got mad thinking I was presenting him with an ultimatum, like if you dont commit to me and go by what obviously appeared to him as rules I was oposeing on him , I would leave. I was that upset, and I was because according to how things have been with us, I feel I was mislead into thinking it was more of thing between us then he did. What is happening is that the man is giving me mixed messages and he cant see it. he's had a bad past with other women. Every past relationship he speaks of is in a negative one and judgement on the person. Dont we get to tierd of this. he preaches to me to let go of my past relationship pain yet he himself has not given up on his own. I say it again, dont we get tired of this.