I put "other," because it did happen recently, and it made me feel good...but i wouldn't like it if it was a regular occurence--that would freak me out. I was throwing a party for the first time ever in my apartment that i lived in for almost 6 years, and almost cancelled the night before, which she knew about because I called her freaking out.

I e-mailed her the next morning and said I wasn't going to cancel it, and she didn't need to call me back. She did anyway, and wished me luck on the party.

That night she texted me that she hoped the party turned out well and I had fun. It was completely unbidden, but I thought it was nice she was giving me a little extra boost.

In the year and 4 months that I've seen her, this is the first time she's done that. If this were to happen every week, or just randomly over small things, I wouldn't like it. She knew this was something important to me, and caused me anxiety, so I found it helpful to know she was thinking of me.