I felt very cared for the couple of times my T called unexpectedly. She's pretty firm with boundaries so it was a very pleasant surprise when she did call. She knew I was in a pretty severe crisis and called to check up on me. It's great to have that kind of support when needed. And she also knows that I don't want to bother her so I probably wouldn't initiate a phone conversation. But it's only happened a couple of times in over 5 years.