I guess I don't get why more did people don't have did friends. I don't mean that we go up to any old people and say hi I'm an alter. we only say about ourselves with people who know we have did like our t and our did friends and even then we don't actually do that! nobody else ever, with other people we pretend we are 'normal'. but I just don't get why more people don't be known to other safe people. like me, I've been around since forever and deal with heaps and heaps of things, like most things in life we do I do in some way too. so I am every bit as real as any other adult one or host. and I just don't see anything wrong with me being out and doing stuff or being known as me with my did friends. why would I pretend to be the adult ones?? That doesn't make any sense. I am glad I have friends who know me as me and like me for me too. and I am glad I know other did peoples and get to know some of their bigs and littles and that we can share stuff with each other and not feel so weird and alone.

yeah and I want to say that alters aren't less than the host or less than important they are really important, like I myself do heaps of life stuff and the big ones are not more important than me or have the right to be any more than me cause we are all part of ONE person and there is no part of this person that is not important, every part belongs here.