Regardless of what anyone else thinks, feels or says ... If you don't want to have a relationship with your female parental unit, then you don't have to have one with her ... I've had absolutely nothing to do with my toxic family of origin in over 20 years ... It wasn't an easy choice to make, but it's most definitely been the best thing I ever did for my own physical and emotional well-being!
Sincerely,
Pfrog!