Oh yeah - i told my male t he was not allowed to get all male defensive like they do? There should be a word for it like mansplaining. My reasoning was, i was sooooo in love with him, that i couldnt possibly be really criticizing him, or be gasp wrong even if i was hurting his feelings, so he should just listen to what i was saying and be grateful for my honesty.

Im hoping hillary will make that a new presidential decree. like in general.