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Originally Posted by gonegirl99
In some of my other threads, I've talked about living with my "father". Well now I've been put out of his house too because he is trying to move his girlfriend in, only to return to my narcissistic mother's house. But this time I am told I will have to pay $100 rent including utilities. While the golden child, my sister, does not. I know that I am an adult (24 years old) and some people say that adult children should pay to live at their parents house. However, my 23 year old sibling does not have to pay.
I am at the end of the road. Family has turned their back against me, not knowing my mother's intentions of creating a scapegoat and a golden child. I have no friends to vent to either. I am told not to bring up being treated unfairly or else I will have to be homeless and go to a shelter.
I am also told I have to pay Sallie Mae for a degree I didn't even earn yet. I really hate life but it sucks we are not allowed to post what we really feel like doing when we have nowhere or nobody to turn to.
I don't know why I am targeted. I don't know why life has to be so hard 4 me and not for others. Why do my parents just not care about me? Why does no one understand me?? I hate both of my ****ing parents and my entire family.
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Hi gonegirl,
Hope this awful situation opens new opportunities for you. It is hard to realize that our family members are not supportive. Also unequal treatment for siblings is more common than we think. At the end of the day we discover that our parents are just human beings, sometimes they are too flawed. We need to put up with it and go ahead with our lives. Sometimes, in doing so, we discover we are stronger than we thought.
I strongly believe this place is for us to express ourselves in the way we need. We can come here and bring all our weakness. We do not need to be judged or reprimanded but embraced and encouraged.
I believe you can improve your life and be better. Please, do not hesitate to post here again and again. I will do it, as well. This is a safe space.
Sending you a big hug